You can read https://hsperson.com/more-research-high-sensitivity-does-not-overlap-with-narcissism-but-we-are-not-perfect-parents-managers-either/ for lots of arguments against this black/white & over-generalised theory.
I try to buy soft material surfaces in furniture and items, and no metal/glass items where it’s possible. There’s also hard and soft wood. You can test it by dropping something onto the item you want to buy before you buy.
Answered on January 16, 2022.